Anugrah Kumar, a Christian Post contributor, shares a strange offer from a Southfield, Michigan, attorney. Perhaps Walter Bentley was seeking publicity, but the law professor and Detroit-area lawyer offered his services for free to the “lucky” couple with the best break up story. He added his twist of irony by providing this “gift” on Valentine’s Day, a day so many in our nation use to demonstrate their love for their mate in a special way. Bentley claimed to have had dozens of takers for his offer, and he believed he was providing a big help to some couple. According to the article, a divorce costs $3,000. The article ended with this shameful quote from Bentley, who said, “We’re really looking for the most heartwarming, that person who truly deserves it” (http://www.christianpost.com).
How much do you value your marriage and the relationship you have with your spouse? What are you doing to invest in it and make it better? Certainly, a nation saturated with sin cannot help but dishonor divine institutions like marriage. Marriage, God’s way, is about faithfulness, commitment, unselfishness, sacrificial giving, and an active desire to serve and please the other person. Pleasure and satisfaction are produced in the wake of such an approach. Marriage, man’s way, is disposable and disdained, discardable and destitute of the happiness that only comes in living for Christ and others above self. Despite a desperate pursuit for fulfillment while remaining self-centered and self-sighted, the one so jealously guarding selfish wants, wishes, and feelings is doomed to misery and unhappiness.
Bible books like Song of Solomon proclaim the utter bliss of marital love. You will find it lauded in the Proverbs, too. New Testament passages lift high this heavenly institution (Eph. 5:23; Ti. 2:4-5; Heb. 13:4). God knows what makes us tick, and so He has provided the means to our happiness. This includes our basic needs of companionship, affection, and intimacy. As much as is within our control, may we invest the time, effort, energy, and money to build better marriages.